In 39 years, I’ve collected my fair share of life lessons, and trust me—they’re not your typical “live, laugh, love” advice. From the beauty of embracing imperfections to knowing when to let go, each lesson is a reminder to live authentically, love fiercely, and trust the timing of your life. This isn’t about perfection; it’s about progress, gratitude, and learning that your journey is uniquely yours. So, whether you’re 19, 39, or somewhere in between, there’s a nugget (or 39!) in here for you.

There are plenty of fish in the sea and we are here to help you figure out which fish to toss back in the water and let go for good.